Weddings at the Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis

Contact a member of the Cathedral clergy to secure them as your wedding officiant and to begin your marriage preparation. Your officiating priest/deacon will outline the requirements of marriage preparation for the Archdiocese of Saint Louis, as well as specific details for weddings at the Cathedral.

• For parishioners who have been registered and actively supporting the parish for a minimum of 6 months, a $1,275 donation is required before the date is confirmed (includes a $275 stipend for a Cathedral organist). 
• For parishioners who have been registered for less than 6 months at the time the wedding date is booked, a $2,275 donation is required (includes a $275 stipend for a Cathedral organist). 

These rates are suggested as the minimum offering for use of the Church and not intended to limit your generosity.

A member of the Cathedral clergy will be happy to meet with you to discuss your marriage plans.

The minimum donation required before the date is confirmed for a non-registered or inactive resident is $2,275 (includes a $275 stipend for a Cathedral organist). This is suggested as the minimum offering for use of the Church and is not intended to limit your generosity.

If you are NOT a registered active member of the Cathedral parish, contact the priest/deacon who will be officiating at your wedding. This may be a priest/deacon either from your own parish or with whom you are acquainted. 

This priest/deacon will need to agree to the following:

• Accept responsibility for your marriage preparation;
• Performing the pre-nuptial investigation, completing and submitting all the necessary paperwork to the Cathedral ONE MONTH PRIOR to the wedding ceremony;
• Be present for the wedding rehearsal;
• Officiate the wedding ceremony.

A $2,275 minimum donation is required before the date is confirmed (includes a $275 stipend for a Cathedral organist). This is suggested as the minimum offering for use of the Church and is not intended to limit your generosity.

If both bride and groom are practicing Catholics, you are encouraged to celebrate your wedding within a full Mass.

If one of you is not Catholic, it may be more appropriate to celebrate the wedding ceremony within a service of Scripture readings and prayers which would enable all of your guests to fully participate.

If either the bride or the groom has never been baptized in any church, the wedding ceremony outside the Mass is the only option.

The Cathedral Sanctuary can accommodate wedding parties of up to 14 people (i.e., bride, groom, and up to 6 attendants each). Additional attendants are not encouraged but are allowed. However, any wedding party that exceeds the 14-person capacity of the sanctuary will be required to seat the extra attendants outside of the communion rail, in the pews.

The Marriage Rite is a Sacrament of the Church, a solemn exchange of vows between a bride and a groom, and an act of worship on the part of all those present to offer thanks and praise for God’s blessings on the couple’s life together as husband and wife. All of the music before, during, and after the wedding liturgy reflects the Christian meaning of the Rite. Therefore, all music must be taken from the treasury of sacred repertoire.

Music at worship is a form of sung prayer and must relate to the glory of God and reflect the redeeming grace of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. All music at your wedding ceremony should follow that principle, and your favorite popular music should be reserved for your reception.

• A Cathedral Staff Organist plays at every wedding. A $275 organist fee covers your planning meeting and the ceremony itself. This fee, made payable to the Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis, is separate from the wedding stipend and is due before you schedule your planning meeting, which should happen about 3 months before your wedding date. Call the Music Office at 314-373-8227 to schedule.
• Your wedding fee includes the services of a Cathedral Basilica cantor who sings the Mass parts and can serve as a soloist.
• If you are interested in having a choir sing at your wedding, discuss with the Cathedral Music Office. The members of the Schola Cantorum at the Cathedral Basilica, a professional chamber choir of the highest standards, is available for $1,200. The cathedral cantors and Schola Cantorum have right of first refusal for all weddings as do the Cathedral Staff Organists. For repertoire questions or more information, please contact the Cathedral Music Office.
• If you would like additional musicians to participate in your wedding, the Music Office may be able to help contract some of the finest professional musicians in the area, who have performed at the Cathedral on a regular basis. Particularly popular are trumpet, violin, harp, a string quartet, or brass ensemble. The fees vary from instrument to instrument, and you may call the Music Office for additional information. If contracted, fees for the services of additional musicians, vocalists, or choirs are due in full by the wedding rehearsal.
• The use of outside musicians/vocalists must be approved by the Director of Sacred Music. References and an audition may be requested. Singers should be professionally trained and experienced singing in large spaces and liturgical settings. Amateur musicians may better perform at your wedding reception. Music selections must be made with or approved by the Director of Sacred Music. If additional meetings or rehearsals with the organist are required, there may be an extra fee.
• Before your planning meeting, listen to the reference recordings for wedding music at the Cathedral and complete the music selection form.

Documenting your wedding ceremony in picture and video is a monumental undertaking, however it is important that the process not distract members of the assembly away from the act of worship. Therefore, we request that you work and your professionals work directly with your Cathedral Basilica wedding coordinator, as he/she will be able to indicate those locations in the church which are most advantageous for videotaping and still photography. This will prevent the professional you hire from roaming through the church and interfering with the ceremony. 

Other basic guidelines to note:

• Photographers and videographers are never allowed to enter the sanctuary, balcony, or pulpit.
• Flashes and camera lights are not to be used during the ceremony.
• Videographers are requested to remain stationary during the ceremony.
• With permission, posed photographs may be taken for up to thirty minutes following the ceremony in the All Saints Chapel only. Weather permitting, posed pictures may also be taken outside on the grounds of the Cathedral.
• All wedding photographers/videographers will be issued special passes for the date/time of the wedding. Professionals without proper Cathedral-issued passes will not be allowed to take photos/video.

• The use of “Unity” candles and/or candelabra in the sanctuary is not permitted.
• Only fresh cut flowers and live plants are permitted in the sanctuary under the direction of the wedding coordinator and wedding sacristan.
• Flowers used to decorate the sanctuary and altar will not be allowed to be removed from the church following the ceremony. 
• Pews may not be decorated.
• The use of aisle runners of any kind is not allowed.
• No bottled water, gum, food, or drink of any type is allowed in the Cathedral or on its grounds.
• Appropriate dress for rehearsal and wedding is required. For the wedding ceremony, strapless gowns will not be allowed for the bride or her attendants unless a jacket, shawl, or other covering is worn over the shoulders during the ceremony. If the attire of any member of the wedding party is deemed inappropriate, the Cathedral is within its right to immediately cancel the wedding with no refund of the wedding stipend provided. No exceptions.
• There is no facility in the Cathedral available as a dressing area. 
• For insurance reasons, we cannot allow rice, birdseed, flower petals, or any other item to be thrown in or on the grounds of the Cathedral.
• The wedding sacristan and the wedding coordinator, on the behalf of the Cathedral Basilica and the officiating priest/deacon, assumes the responsibility for maintaining the sacred nature of the church, directing the entrance procession, and ensuring that the ceremony begins on time. Wedding parties who do not respect the space or are not prepared to begin on time run the risk of having their wedding cancelled, with no refund of the wedding stipend provided.